Succeeding with Asian women — and succeeding in life, really — is all about expanding your \u201ccomfort zone.\u201d If you currently are not dating and having sex on a regular basis with attractive women, then it\u2019s time for you to make some changes. Here\u2019s a solid piece of advice to start with:<\/p>\n
#1. Get To Know The \u201cGate Keepers.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s very important for you to start building \u201cgate keeper\u201d relationships. This means making AAF\u2019s (Asian Female Friends) who will then give you access to more Asian women. You probably won\u2019t be having sex with any of these AAFs. Their function will be to introduce you to their cute friends and get you into their social circles.<\/p>\n When Asian women go out, they tend to hang together in groups, and it can be extremely hard to \u201cpenetrate\u201d the group and introduce yourself when you don\u2019t know any of them. The best possible way to meet a beautiful Asian girl is to be introduced to her by one of her friends who knows you (and \u201cvouches\u201d for you as a good guy).<\/p>\n Many times I\u2019ve been in nightclubs in California or Las Vegas and I see a group of Asian girls I\u2019d love to be with. Some of them are very cute, but usually there are one or two girls in the group who are short, chubby and unattractive. Those are the girls that it\u2019s easy to make friends with.<\/p>\n Then, the next time they all go out to the club or to a party, guess what? You\u2019ll be invited to come along, and you can get to know all of them in a way that feels comfortable and natural for everyone. The \u201cgate keeper\u201d will go out of her way to make sure you are enjoying yourself and meeting all of her friends.<\/p>\n Asian women are really cool in this way. I\u2019ve known plain-looking divorced Asian women in their 40s who I never slept with (and didn\u2019t want to), but because I was friendly and charming towards them, they bent over backwards to fix me up with their cute, younger single friends!<\/p>\n I have met awesome \u201cgate keepers\u201d at my work. These women are starved for attention from men, so they\u2019re happy to make friends with me. In a lot of cases, as soon as I mention that I\u2019m single, the woman will start offering to introduce me to her single Asian friends who are looking for boyfriends!<\/p>\n (Like I said, Asian women love to play \u201cmatch maker\u201d and hook up their friends with nice guys — especially a nice foreign guy.)<\/p>\n The next thing you know, you might get invited to a birthday party where you\u2019re surrounded by 20 Asian women and you\u2019re the only foreigner — so of course, they\u2019re all curious to meet you, and your gate keeper friend is introducing you to everyone. So, building your network of casual Asian female friends is the first step. When you\u2019re ready to take it to the next level, you can become the organizer of social activities. Host a dinner party and tell your gate keepers to bring some single friends to meet you and your friends. Plan a picnic or barbeque at the beach. This way, you\u2019re taking the responsibility off of the gate keeper (these women are normally putting themselves in charge of organizing activities for their social groups), and you are offering to plan a fun occasion for her and her friends. They\u2019ll be thrilled when you extend this type of initiation.<\/p>\n #2. Know How To Read The Signals.<\/strong><\/p>\n For a lot of years I just didn\u2019t \u201cget it.\u201d I missed out on so many opportunities to bang Asian women because I didn\u2019t \u201ctake the hint\u201d and recognize that these women wanted to sleep with me! I thought they were just being friendly, and I didn\u2019t want to risk making a move and getting rejected. Knowing how to read the \u201cattraction signals\u201d of Asian women will save you a lot of regret later on.<\/p>\n Once you start [thirstylink ids=”942″]making more Asian female friends[\/thirstylink] and spending time hanging out with them, you will notice the slight verbal and nonverbal \u201ccues\u201d that they use to communicate their interest in you.<\/p>\n In the past, I\u2019d have AFF\u2019s say things to me like, \u201cSo what are you doing this weekend?\u201d \u201cCan you help me with my homework?\u201d \u201cI\u2019m so stressed out, let\u2019s go drinking.\u201d Or they\u2019d give me compliments like \u201cWow, do you work out?\u201d Or, \u201cyou\u2019re so smart.\u201d I thought they were just being friendly. I didn\u2019t realize that Asian women typically won\u2019t say these kinds of things, due to their shyness. The fact that they were saying these things, and extending invitations to, really meant one thing: they wanted to fuck me.<\/p>\n When I was in graduate school, I had cute classmates from Japan, China, Singapore, Taiwan and Thailand come to my crappy little on-campus apartment to study with me. I thought they just wanted to study; I didn\u2019t want to creep them out by trying something sexual. But now I realize that they were totally up for sex. Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t have been hanging out at my apartment until midnight. It was an unusually aggressive move for an Asian woman to invite herself to my place to \u201cstudy\u201d at night.<\/p>\n But I didn\u2019t read the signals…so we would study, and she would go home. If only I\u2019d read the signals and \u201cescalated\u201d with these girls (read the \u201cSecrets Of Dating Asian Women\u201d book for more information on this process).<\/p>\n She might make the first move by inviting herself over, but the next move is always going to be up to you. If you don\u2019t escalate, nothing sexual is going to happen.<\/p>\n Now I realize that when a female Asian co-worker or \u201cfriend\u201d asks me to come over and see her house, because she wants to get my opinion on whether she should sell it, renovate it, or whatever, I read the signals and I know what this \u201cinvitation\u201d is really about. I always show up with a small \u201chouse warming\u201d gift, and within minutes of me walking in the door she is practically tearing my clothes off.<\/p>\n Follow up on all hints of interest in a polite and focused manner. If she says \u201cyou should come see my house sometime,\u201d don\u2019t just say \u201cyeah, OK, let me know when you want me to come by.\u201d Tell her you can come by on Saturday or Sunday, and ask her which is better for her. Make a plan. Don\u2019t blow your chance.<\/p>\n #3. Love them and they will love you back with great intensity.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019ve noticed that Asian men tend to treat their women rather poorly compared to how we treat women as Westerners. (Honestly, a lot of Western guys go overboard when they like a girl…kissing her ass, spending money on her, trying to rush her into committing to a serious relationship, etc. I always respect women and treat them like a gentleman, but you never want to act like a spineless chump who feels lucky to be with her.)<\/p>\n If an Asian woman is extremely beautiful by the standards of her society, then of course guys are going to kiss her ass and treat her like a princess. But that\u2019s only 1% or 2% of Asian women. The rest are often severely lacking in self-confidence. If she\u2019s past her mid-twenties and still single, she may be afraid that she\u2019ll never find a man. Where she comes from, women are held to an extremely high standard.<\/p>\n If she\u2019s been married before, or already has a kid, most Asian guys wouldn\u2019t even consider dating her. If she\u2019s older than 26, she\u2019s also considered to be \u201cpast her expiration date.\u201d And the standards of beauty where she comes from are incredibly high: you\u2019ve got to be tall, graceful, have flawless skin, and be from a good family. This is why most Asian women are self-conscious about their looks and don\u2019t consider themselves to be special or unique.<\/p>\n The point is, by loving the Asian woman that you are with at the moment and giving her your complete attention, you will make her feel extremely special. This means keep your cell phone turned off, hold her hand in a proud way when you walk with her, pay for everything, be polite and respectful, and tell her the little things about her that you find cute or sexy. (Her laugh, her smile, her hair, the way she walks, etc.)<\/p>\n When she says negative things about herself, don\u2019t allow it. Communicate to her that she is totally unique and special to you. Take her out to do fun things\u2014go on weekend trips, romantic \u201cdate nights,\u201d sports games, etc. When you share your fun experiences with her, this will make her feel bonded to you.<\/p>\n If you’re reading this right now and you would like to learn more ‘secrets’ on how to get an Asian woman to come home with you AND come inside with you after a date, how to get her “turned on”, and how to smoothly take things to a “physical level” in a way that she’ll enjoy, then you SERIOUSLY should check this out:<\/p>\n [thirstylink ids=”970″] The Secrets of Dating Asian Women[\/thirstylink]<\/p>\n <\/a>… because inside, you’ll uncover HUNDREDS more ideas on how to do so. You can download it right now, and be reading it in a few minutes…<\/p>\n Just go here:<\/p>\n [thirstylink ids=”970″] The Secrets of Dating Asian Women[\/thirstylink]<\/a><\/p>\n And if you are searching for a partner in bars in Thailand then this downloadable<\/p>\n [thirstylink ids=”916″]Thai girl relationship eBook[\/thirstylink]\u00a0 is a must read.<\/p>\n To your success!<\/p>\n Brian<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Succeeding with Asian women — and succeeding in life, really — is all about expanding your \u201ccomfort zone.\u201d If you currently are not dating and having sex on a regular basis with attractive women, then it\u2019s time for you to make some changes. Here\u2019s a solid piece of advice to start with: #1. Get To … Continue reading How To Attract Asian Women – 4 Easy Steps<\/span>
\nYou can meet these \u201cgate keepers\u201d anywhere — it could be your neighbor, a woman at your job, from your church, a class you are taking, etc.<\/p>\n