How To Attract Asian Women – 4 Easy Steps

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Succeeding with Asian women — and succeeding in life, really — is all about expanding your “comfort zone.” If you currently are not dating and having sex on a regular basis with attractive women, then it’s time for you to make some changes. Here’s a solid piece of advice to start with:

#1. Get To Know The “Gate Keepers.”

It’s very important for you to start building “gate keeper” relationships. This means making AAF’s (Asian Female Friends) who will then give you access to more Asian women. You probably won’t be having sex with any of these AAFs. Their function will be to introduce you to their cute friends and get you into their social circles.

When Asian women go out, they tend to hang together in groups, and it can be extremely hard to “penetrate” the group and introduce yourself when you don’t know any of them. The best possible way to meet a beautiful Asian girl is to be introduced to her by one of her friends who knows you (and “vouches” for you as a good guy).

Many times I’ve been in nightclubs in California or Las Vegas and I see a group of Asian girls I’d love to be with. Some of them are very cute, but usually there are one or two girls in the group who are short, chubby and unattractive. Those are the girls that it’s easy to make friends with.

Then, the next time they all go out to the club or to a party, guess what? You’ll be invited to come along, and you can get to know all of them in a way that feels comfortable and natural for everyone. The “gate keeper” will go out of her way to make sure you are enjoying yourself and meeting all of her friends.

Asian women are really cool in this way. I’ve known plain-looking divorced Asian women in their 40s who I never slept with (and didn’t want to), but because I was friendly and charming towards them, they bent over backwards to fix me up with their cute, younger single friends!

I have met awesome “gate keepers” at my work. These women are starved for attention from men, so they’re happy to make friends with me. In a lot of cases, as soon as I mention that I’m single, the woman will start offering to introduce me to her single Asian friends who are looking for boyfriends!

(Like I said, Asian women love to play “match maker” and hook up their friends with nice guys — especially a nice foreign guy.)

The next thing you know, you might get invited to a birthday party where you’re surrounded by 20 Asian women and you’re the only foreigner — so of course, they’re all curious to meet you, and your gate keeper friend is introducing you to everyone.
You can meet these “gate keepers” anywhere — it could be your neighbor, a woman at your job, from your church, a class you are taking, etc.

So, building your network of casual Asian female friends is the first step. When you’re ready to take it to the next level, you can become the organizer of social activities. Host a dinner party and tell your gate keepers to bring some single friends to meet you and your friends. Plan a picnic or barbeque at the beach. This way, you’re taking the responsibility off of the gate keeper (these women are normally putting themselves in charge of organizing activities for their social groups), and you are offering to plan a fun occasion for her and her friends. They’ll be thrilled when you extend this type of initiation.

#2. Know How To Read The Signals.

For a lot of years I just didn’t “get it.” I missed out on so many opportunities to bang Asian women because I didn’t “take the hint” and recognize that these women wanted to sleep with me! I thought they were just being friendly, and I didn’t want to risk making a move and getting rejected. Knowing how to read the “attraction signals” of Asian women will save you a lot of regret later on.

Once you start [thirstylink ids=”942″]making more Asian female friends[/thirstylink] and spending time hanging out with them, you will notice the slight verbal and nonverbal “cues” that they use to communicate their interest in you.

In the past, I’d have AFF’s say things to me like, “So what are you doing this weekend?” “Can you help me with my homework?” “I’m so stressed out, let’s go drinking.” Or they’d give me compliments like “Wow, do you work out?” Or, “you’re so smart.” I thought they were just being friendly. I didn’t realize that Asian women typically won’t say these kinds of things, due to their shyness. The fact that they were saying these things, and extending invitations to, really meant one thing: they wanted to fuck me.

When I was in graduate school, I had cute classmates from Japan, China, Singapore, Taiwan and Thailand come to my crappy little on-campus apartment to study with me. I thought they just wanted to study; I didn’t want to creep them out by trying something sexual. But now I realize that they were totally up for sex. Otherwise, they wouldn’t have been hanging out at my apartment until midnight. It was an unusually aggressive move for an Asian woman to invite herself to my place to “study” at night.

But I didn’t read the signals…so we would study, and she would go home. If only I’d read the signals and “escalated” with these girls (read the “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book for more information on this process).

She might make the first move by inviting herself over, but the next move is always going to be up to you. If you don’t escalate, nothing sexual is going to happen.

Now I realize that when a female Asian co-worker or “friend” asks me to come over and see her house, because she wants to get my opinion on whether she should sell it, renovate it, or whatever, I read the signals and I know what this “invitation” is really about. I always show up with a small “house warming” gift, and within minutes of me walking in the door she is practically tearing my clothes off.

Follow up on all hints of interest in a polite and focused manner. If she says “you should come see my house sometime,” don’t just say “yeah, OK, let me know when you want me to come by.” Tell her you can come by on Saturday or Sunday, and ask her which is better for her. Make a plan. Don’t blow your chance.

#3. Love them and they will love you back with great intensity.

I’ve noticed that Asian men tend to treat their women rather poorly compared to how we treat women as Westerners. (Honestly, a lot of Western guys go overboard when they like a girl…kissing her ass, spending money on her, trying to rush her into committing to a serious relationship, etc. I always respect women and treat them like a gentleman, but you never want to act like a spineless chump who feels lucky to be with her.)

If an Asian woman is extremely beautiful by the standards of her society, then of course guys are going to kiss her ass and treat her like a princess. But that’s only 1% or 2% of Asian women. The rest are often severely lacking in self-confidence. If she’s past her mid-twenties and still single, she may be afraid that she’ll never find a man. Where she comes from, women are held to an extremely high standard.

If she’s been married before, or already has a kid, most Asian guys wouldn’t even consider dating her. If she’s older than 26, she’s also considered to be “past her expiration date.” And the standards of beauty where she comes from are incredibly high: you’ve got to be tall, graceful, have flawless skin, and be from a good family. This is why most Asian women are self-conscious about their looks and don’t consider themselves to be special or unique.

The point is, by loving the Asian woman that you are with at the moment and giving her your complete attention, you will make her feel extremely special. This means keep your cell phone turned off, hold her hand in a proud way when you walk with her, pay for everything, be polite and respectful, and tell her the little things about her that you find cute or sexy. (Her laugh, her smile, her hair, the way she walks, etc.)

When she says negative things about herself, don’t allow it. Communicate to her that she is totally unique and special to you. Take her out to do fun things—go on weekend trips, romantic “date nights,” sports games, etc. When you share your fun experiences with her, this will make her feel bonded to you.

If you’re reading this right now and you would like to learn more ‘secrets’ on how to get an Asian woman to come home with you AND come inside with you after a date, how to get her “turned on”, and how to smoothly take things to a “physical level” in a way that she’ll enjoy, then you SERIOUSLY should check this out:

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To your success!

Brian

10 Reasons Why Guys Love Asian Women

The physical appeal of Asian women is undeniable. Their long, silky hair…slim, firm, petite bodies…and even the graceful way that they walk. (Asian women tend to move in a poised, sensuous way — while many Western women tend to stride or charge ahead in a more determined, almost masculine, manner — like an NFL linebacker looking to put a hit on the quarterback!)

I’m sure you get turned on by their sensual, exotic features. And of course, Asian women possess a sense of innocence that makes us curious to know more about them. It’s a turn-on to think that beneath that shy, polite exterior lies a simmering sexuality that is waiting to be unleashed!

But if you were to admit this preference to a Western woman, she’d probably respond with scorn. She’ll assume that your attraction to Asian women is all about wanting a “submissive slave” who will wait on you hand and foot and cater to your sexual needs. The B.W.W. (Bitter Western Woman) believes that guys who are into Asian girls aren’t “strong” enough or “man” enough to handle a “real woman.”

This couldn’t be farther from the truth, and you already know this if you’ve been with Asian women. The Asian girlfriends I’ve had have been smart, self-sufficient, opinionated and strong. Yet at the same time, they radiate pure femininity.
They make a man feel like…well, like a MAN!

This is the way you and I were born to feel, and it’s what we need in order to feel happy and good about ourselves. Just ask any of your married buddies who have been beaten down and emasculated by their nagging, overbearing wives.

If you haven’t tried sex with an Asian woman and want to get started quickly and don’t mind traveling then take a trip to Thailand. Check out Thai women in the bars in Bangkok or Pattaya. There are plenty of stunningly attractive girls in the beer bars and go go bar entertainment spots. But make sure you read the [thirstylink ids=”913″]Pattaya Bar Girls Report[/thirstylink] before you visit.

Having an attraction towards Asian women isn’t any weird “fetish,” nor does it suggest that you are in any way deficient or unable to handle a relationship with a woman of your own race. On the contrary, I say that you are enlightened! You’re willing to think “outside the box” and not follow the same script that your friends do — the guys who settle for whatever girl they can get, because they’re convinced that in order to date stunningly beautiful women (or a hot younger woman) you need to be rich, famous or have movie-star good looks.

These guys accept the idea that they’re never going to be with a hot, sexy, hard-bodied woman who respects and adores them — and so, once they reach a certain age, they marry a girl who they think is “compatible” with them (which usually means, she’s as boring and ordinary as he is).

But how many of these guys wind up being truly happy and sexually fulfilled? Personally, I don’t know of many. I just know that a lot of married friends of mine beg their wives for the chance to hang out with me. They tell their wives that they need to come over to Asia and visit me “for business,” but the real reason is that they know I will introduce them to beautiful Asian women.

Look, we’re all driven by the same needs and desires that we shared with our ancestors 10,000 years ago. We are hard-wired to be men. We desire women who are soft and feminine, and respond to our masculinity and strength. Asian women cater to this need like no other type of female.

I believe there are a number of valid, important reasons why men find Asian women so appealing. Some of these reasons, we’re not even aware of on a conscious level.

Here are some of the big ones. (Note, these characteristics do not apply to all Asian women. I’m talking about the caliber of Asian women that you’ll want to meet and be with.)

#1 They have strong sexual appeal.

The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find irresistible.

Plus, anatomically, the Asian face (particularly the women with more Oriental features) is constructed so that it seems to convey less expression and emotion than the faces of Caucasian people. The construct of their faces makes Asian women more “difficult to read” than Caucasian women, who tend to express and share their feelings constantly (whether we’re in the mood to know about their feelings, or not!).

This gives Asian woman an air of mystery and unpredictability, which is deeply attractive to men — because we’re hard-wired to thrive on the thrill of the hunt.

Asian women also have excellent skin quality, and tend to develop less wrinkles than Caucasian woman as they get older — which is why Asian women can remain strikingly beautiful well into middle age.

#2 They tend to be quite approachable.

In my experience, there is no question that Asian women are more approachable than Western women and they love being flirted with. Simply walk up to most Asian women, give them a warm smile, and say to them in their native language, “You’re so pretty,” and you’ll often get a smile in return — and that will be enough to start a conversation. With an American woman, this would probably get you a dirty look (or worse).

The fact is, Asian women smile more. It’s part of their culture. You can tour provinces in the Philippines that are poorer than anything you’ve ever seen, and the people (and the women, in particular) will always greet you with a smile.

Thailand is literally known as “The Land Of Smiles” because people smile all the time. (This can be confusing to foreigners, since the “Thai smile” can actually mean a lot of different things — Bill Williams explains this in the “[thirstylink ids=”916″]After The Rush[/thirstylink]” book. But at any rate, it beats being around a bunch of frowning, frumpy Western women!)

Try walking around a shopping mall in Bangkok, Jakarta or Manila — your mind will be blown by how many pretty young women are simply willing to smile at you when you make eye contact.

Contrast this with the hot women in America. They will frown most of the time in order to assert that they can’t be bothered with meeting anyone new. They will automatically consider you to be a loser, or some type of threat, until you prove otherwise.

Of course, a lot of Asian women are much shyer than Western women — or seem to be shy, until you engage them in a friendly way and get them to open up.

Don’t think that their shy exterior makes Asian women more difficult to approach. In fact, you’ll find that part of their shyness stems from their great concern with being polite.

At that point, the key is knowing how to build their interest and attraction.

#3 They are excellent homemakers, and take pride in managing the household.

Visit a home run by an Asian woman, and you’ll find that it is always organized and clean. The meals are prepared with care, the husband always wears clean clothes, and the children are well-fed and neatly dressed. Unless your Asian sweetheart is from a rich family that employed servants, she was helping out with household duties starting at a young age.

Even the poorest families keep their living space as clean as possible. In Asia, women will always make sure that your home is clean, and they will take pride in cooking your meals and keeping you well-fed.

#4 They have a rich sense of culture and heritage.

Many Westerners are fascinated by the colorful, exotic, mysterious cultures of Asia, which are steeped in history. In recent times, Asia has gotten a reputation as being rather trendy among Westerners. This is particularly true with Japan, which Westerners have begun to recognize as a Mecca for fashion. (Japanese girls are years ahead of Western girls, with their super-cool, futuristic styles of dress.)

Why else would so many Caucasians, both men and women, put tattoos of Chinese and Japanese characters on their bodies, thinking it makes them look hip and “spiritual” — even though they’ve never even visited those countries? (Very lame, if you ask me…)

By [thirstylink ids=”942″] dating an Asian woman[/thirstylink], you’ll have the opportunity to learn more her fascinating culture — including its beliefs, traditions, music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history. This isn’t the case when you date a woman who grew up in the town next to yours. Being able to constantly learn new things about her culture, while sharing yours with her, can be a big advantage in a relationship. There is less chance of the two of you growing bored with each other. When you date an Asian woman and have genuine appreciation for her culture and background, there are new things for you to explore every day.

#5 Asian women place a high value on relationships and have unconditional love for their family.

Another attractive aspect of Asian women is that unlike most of their counterparts in Western countries, they put tremendous value on their families and relationships. Choose the right partner, and she’ll be highly loyal to you and will avoid doing anything that will damage the relationship. This tends to bring out the best in you as a man.

Did you know that the Philippines is one of only two countries in the world where there is no divorce? It does not exist. Filipinas are raised to believe that when they marry, it is for life. Even in other, more developed Asian countries (where there is divorce), it is considered a shameful last resort — unlike in Western countries, where the attitude isn’t until “til death us part.” It’s more like, “Let’s give it a try, and if it’s not working out six months from now, I’ll take your house and half your money, dumbass…”

Again, I must remind you that I am speaking in general terms here. Are all Asian women passionately loyal and committed to their relationships? Of course not. There are plenty of warped women and gold diggers out there; you’ve got to keep your wits about you and know to avoid them. (Which can be difficult when you find yourself dating an Asian girl with the tightest body you’ve ever laid your hands on!) The “[thirstylink ids=”916″]After The Rush[/thirstylink]” e-book contains some very helpful tips on this.

#6 We believe the attraction is mutual.

A big reason why a lot of guys “hone in” on Asian women is that they’ve been told that Asian women are as attracted to foreigners as we are to them. This idea of a “mutual fascination” is appealing to guys who are tired of jumping through hoops to try to date Western women.

If you are reasonably attractive and have light skin, it is true that many Asian women will have a built-in automatic attraction towards you. Part of this comes from their desire to have light-skinned children, since light skin, in their culture, is considered beautiful and high-status.

#7 Dealing with interracial stigmas is not really an issue.

Western society is a lot more tolerant of other races than it was 100, or even 50, years ago. In America, we elected a black President, which would have been unthinkable only a decade ago. But racism does persist in different forms, and there is still some unease in the West when it comes to interracial relationships.

For example, a white man marrying a black woman, or a black man marrying a white woman, is still considered unacceptable (or at least, inappropriate) in the minds of many Westerners. This isn’t usually the case when a Western man hooks up with an Asian woman. It has been accepted for quite a while. I’m not saying this is a reason to choose Asian women over those of another race, but the reality is, going this route does make it easier for you to “cross the racial divide” if you choose a woman who is not of your own race.

Interracial relationships between non-Asian men, and Asian women, have become very common. And it’s silly for some people to think that the differences in your upbringing and culture, and those of an Asian woman, will create difficulties. In fact, these differences can give the relationship an added dimension that keeps things interesting.

(One difference in backgrounds that can create obstacles is if you marry an Asian woman who comes from a very poor family, since you may be expected to provide financial support for her relatives. Bill Williams talks more about this in the ” [thirstylink ids=”916″]After The Rush[/thirstylink] ” book.)

But as far as the difference between your culture and hers, it shouldn’t present any problems. If any of your friends or family members have an issue with you being with a woman who you love — simply because she is Asian — they need to get with the times and broaden their horizons. (I find that most people who take a dim view of my preference for Asian women are, themselves, starving for companionship or trapped in miserable relationships with women of their own race.)

#8 They are spiritually grounded.

Many Asian women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many Western women lack. Asian women don’t need to do constant “soul searching” and fret about what is lacking in their lives. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.

#9 They have a hardworking nature.

Asian women typically start helping out their families from a very young age, waking up early to help out with house-hold chores. This is a dramatic difference from the way children are typically raised in Western countries. Also, they believe in working hard in order to provide a better future for their families.

This is evident in immigrant communities throughout the Western world; they’ll work 24 hours a day if it means being able to send money home and enabling family members to migrate there and join them. These people respect the value of hard work — and a woman from this type of background is not going to turn into a spoiled “princess” once you marry her.

#10 Asian women take great pride in their appearance.

Even if they’re only stepping out to shop for groceries, Asian women always want to look presentable. Going to the salon is a ritual. They feel it’s important to stay sexy for their man. This is a far cry from the way many Western women behave once they’re married and no longer need to worry about landing a husband. They start packing on the pounds, and would rather wear sweat pants and baggy shirts than the short skirts and tight-fitting jeans that sexy Asian women prefer.

(If you’re still wondering why Western women have negative things to say about Western guys who marry Asian women…can you say “jealousy?”)

It took me a long time to figure out how to date and attract Asian women, and how to make them feel that powerful physical and emotional response called ATTRACTION…

I can’t tell you how much I wish I could have known all these stuff here when I was younger. It’s taken me literally YEARS to put all the pieces together, and I know of no other resources that show you exactly how to become a MASTER with Asian women as these:

[thirstylink ids=”916″]After The Rush[/thirstylink]
[thirstylink ids=”970″]How to Date Asian Women[/thirstylink]

These eBooks will give you a SOLID foundation for thinking and behaving like a guy who NATURALLY attracts Asian women.

Brian

Pattaya Bar Girls

Speak Thai Learning Thai Language is easy

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In Thailand knowing how to say a few Thai words at the right moment can lead to a bundle of fun.

The benefits of being able to speak Thai are compounding.
Usually the Thais are so happy to hear a foreigner has made an effort to learn their language and somehow they seem to reward you.

Understanding some Thai allows you to get involved in
Thailand especially if you are able to express your feelings.

If you come to Thailand one time you will most certainly return especially if you put into practice just some of the tips from the downloadable 110 pages of [thirstylink ids=”913″]Pattaya Bar Girls Report[/thirstylink].
You might return to Thailand many times. It is worth learning Thai if you plan to visit Thailand often.

If you are going to Pattaya you will find that most Pattaya bar girls speak a little English that is pre rehearsed. It will be simple English with broken grammar and probably in this order.

What your name?
Where you come from?
Where you stay?
How long you stay Pattaya?
You stay how many day already?
You marry? You have baby?

Here’s the clinger. A high percentage of Pattaya bar girls
probably won’t understand your answer if it is more than a few words.
Then depending on which country you come from it is possible she won’t understand your accent.

You can have a lot of fun with the Thai girls if you can speak Thai.
Here are just some of the BENEFITS of being able to speak Thai.

* Knowing how to speak Thai will give you insight into the exotic but
complex Thai culture.

* Knowing Thai will allow you to understand what the Thais are
talking about.

And that’s not all.
With your Thai language skills you can guide yourself around the traps that await
the amorous foreigner.

You can say in Thai what you want, what you feel and what you
think. Thai girls seem to relax with you once they hear you can
communicate in their language.

So how do you learn Thai? Personally I find the best way to
learn to speak Thai is to combine two methods. The first method
is face to face with a native Thai speaker and a proven course book.

The next way is with a software program on your computer.
You can learn Thai from a native Thai speaker with the aid of video, pictures,
audio and text on your computer right now.

I signed up for a program on the internet which is a “Fun and Easy Way to Learn Thai“. This program has accelerated my language acquisition ten fold.

With your Thai Language program on your computer you will be speaking short Thai phrases in less than a week. It is free to download.

This is an amazing program. It is fun and easy to use. It will even teach you
to write Thai if you want to.

Check it out and learn some Thai if you are planning to come to Thailand.
Learn Thai the FUN way

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Tim Beer Bar Go Go Bar

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Pattaya Musings from The Major

This time Noy really annoyed me, we’d arranged to go to the movies but she’d changed her mind. ‘I don go, too tied’ she said. ‘Too tired are you joking all you’ve done all day is lay on the bed’. I left her in the condo with the telly on saying ‘I’m going to play pool with Froby be back about twelve’. I arranged to meet Frobisher in the Tim Bar a well known go go bar and beer bar on second road in South Pattaya, opposite The Lek Hotel. ‘We’ll have a quiet drink he said, and maybe ogle a few ladies’. That’s a normal part of Pattaya Nightlife

The night was stickier than a Pattaya ladyboy’s tonsils so it was with relief I walked into the air-conned Tim Bar. We sat down along the back wall with the go go girls on their podium in front of us. We ordered Chang beer from a smiling service girl. It came ice cold, a small bottle for baht 85.

Over the next half hour we were served up some great music along with videos. James Brown from the 70s…Guns and Roses from the 80s…and the Chilli Peppers from the 90s. A welcome change from the usual copies you hear in the bars. I nodded my thanks to Tim Bar DJ he returned it with a grin.

There were many Thai girls, go go dancers and service girls. The go go dancers were more or less all pretty. A few were even beautiful. Their costumes were essentially a thong and an excuse for a bra. Personally The Major prefers a skimpy skirt.

The atmosphere was good in The Tim Bar that night, mainly because of the music played by the Tim Bar DJ.

I’d been catching her eye, she was such a great dancer hardly putting in any effort but managing to be sexier than all the rest of the go go dancers. She was probably about thirty; her body looked about twenty, her face about eighteen. What a cracker! ‘Sex on legs’ Frobisher said unable to disguise the awe in his voice. After her dance stint she came over and sat down next to me. She was even more beautiful close up. ‘I Fon she said please see you, wha your name’?

We chatted about nothing for a while then I thought O well I’ll just ask her. ‘You like me’ I said. ‘I lie, I lie, you ok. Bar fine 600 baht, me? up to you.’ Froby nudged me, ‘ask her about short time he said and she must have heard him because she said ‘Is 900 altogedder for one ow, if you wan service girl fine only 500’. This was good information so I bought her drink. Lady Drink in the Tim Bar 105 baht and the girl gets a token for 40 baht. I looked at her thinking, ‘why not I’ll still be back home by twelve.

I didn’t bar fine her though; instead I thought I’d go back and annoy Noy. When it was Fon’s turn to dance again Froby and I slipped away like a pair of seriously unsuccessful thieves in the night.

As I walked into the condo I heard Noy’s distinctive nasal mutterings. She was curled up, cuddling herself asleep as annoying as ever.

Maybe I will slip back to the Tim Beer Bar……..

What happened when I went back to Tim Bar.

Hotels, Pattaya Bar Girls, Soapy Massage

Pattaya Hotel Close to Beach

There are hundreds of hotels in Pattaya. My friends and I love to stay close to the beach when in Pattaya. Wouldn’t beach side hotels be a little expensive? Not all of them. Here is my recommendation for a nice Pattaya hotel close to the beach that won’t burn a hole in your wallet. This hotel is located on Beach Road Pattaya.

I will define my meaning of “close to the beach”. On Beach Road from the North Pattaya Road Junction all the way to the Walking Street junction any hotel located along that stretch of road will be on the inland roadside of the beach. That means that if you stay in any one of those hotels you will just have to walk across Beach Road plus the promenade and you will be on the sand.

Unlike many medium size hotels in Pattaya this hotel has an elevator (lift). In Thailand the building code requires any hotel with more than 5 floors to have a lift. Many cheap Pattaya hotels and budget guest houses in Pattaya with 5 floors or less DO NOT have a lift. Some cheap hotels in Pattaya have six floors and still do not provide a lift.

This hotel is a good deal for a Pattaya hotel with ocean view. It will cost around 1,000 baht per night if you book online and more if you just walk in to book a room. Follow this link to check the room rate for this beachfront hotel and get up to 65% off the room rate (depends on the season). By following this link you will also be able to read hotel reviews by other travelers who have stayed at the hotel.

What you will find nearby.
Walk from the front door of the hotel turn left and walk twenty meters along Beach Road from the hotel you will find a Thai massage shop an Indian Restaurant then a bit further two girly bars.

Walk further along Beach Road in the same direction for about one minute and you will come to a “Mc Donalds” restaurant. That’s about 180 meters from the hotel. Of course you will also pass several small Thai food restaurants along the way. Walk another 50 meters and you will reach the popular Soi Six collection of short time bars.

The Sabai Land soapy massage parlor is a five-minute walk from the front door of the hotel. If you book this Pattaya hotel on line you will save up to 65% on the walk in rate. It will also guarantee that you have a comfortable room for your first night in Pattaya. I send my beach bunny friends to this hotel whenever they visit Pattaya. The receptionist is cute and sexy. Check out some photos of the reception (lobby). This hotel is a guest friendly hotel meaning you may invite an extra person to stay over night without having to pay that annoying “joiner fee” that a lot of the hotels in Pattaya love to charge.

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Thai Girl Scams

What are Thai girl scams?
Have you been scammed by a Thai girl?

A lot of foreigners who travel to Thailand for a short holiday in Pattaya often consider that they have become the victim of a Thai girl scam. They have found themselves in a situation where they have either lost some money, personal property such as a watch, laptop, passport, credit card, gold chain or been deceived in some way that has caused them emotional trauma.

On many of these occasions it has been the foreigners’ lack of understanding of Thai customs and culture that has led them to be victims of a Thai girl scam. Now I am not advocating that there are no such scams to be found in Pattaya Thailand or anywhere else in the world but in many cases the foreigner’s lack of preparing himself for his visit to a country with such a diverse culture is the catalyst for misunderstanding.

It is this misunderstanding that can lead a newbie traveller into awkward situations that sometimes have a negative outcome. Then the foreigner considers he has been scammed. Would you jump from an aircraft before checking that your parachute is in order?

Likewise would you travel to foreign country without first researching the potential hazards? There are some known scams to prepare yourself for. Understanding Thai girls and the way they think is not easy. I can think of at least three common scams that you might encounter in Pattaya if you are in the wrong place at the right time. You might want to check out several more bar girl scams here.

Here is one type of scam you might like to note. Single travelling males should be careful about bringing unknown women to their hotel rooms or homes. Druggings, whereby the woman coats her nipples with the drug or drops something into your drink to put you to sleep and assist with the theft of your belongings, is not uncommon.

Unfortunately, they sometimes put a little extra into the drink to make sure you are knocked right out. There are reported cases of the little extra inadvertently killing the victim. It’s possible that in a few of those cases the drug administered was incompatible with the victim’s heart condition or medication the victim was taking at the time.

While the rate of theft is remarkably low, it does occur.

My advice is to learn a bit about Thai culture, customs, and potential hazards before you book your flight to Thailand. The more you learn about the people and their ways of going about their everyday tasks, the less potential there will be for misunderstanding.

When a Westerner comes to Thailand he brings with him his way of doing things, his culture, his customs. On occasions the Westerners’ way of doing things can clash with their hosts’. If you do find yourself in an awkward situation try to stay calm. Try not to display anger. In Thai culture it is impolite and unwise to display anger. If you are planning a trip to Pattaya, familiarize yourself with the culture, the customs, and the pitfalls and you will have an unforgettable holiday.

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Suvarnabhumi (Bangkok) Airport to Pattaya by Taxi

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The Bangkok airport is named Suvarnabhumi Airport.

Suvarnabhumi is pronounced “Su-Wana-Poom” and means “The Golden Land”.

The taxis at the airport are currently charging a flat fee of 1,400 baht one way and the journey takes one to one and a half hours, depending on traffic. The fee includes expressway toll.

Taxis are located on level one. Look for the signs. You might be solicited to take an expensive Limo to just Bangkok for 1,000 baht, give these guys the flick you are going to Pattaya.

If you’re arriving in Thailand late at night or in the wee small hours of the morning you’ll need to book your Pattaya hotel from the preceding night.

Example:

If you arrive at the airport at 11:30 p.m. on the 20th, and you take a taxi from the airport you will arrive in Pattaya at around 1:15 to 1:45 a.m. on the 21^st.

Book your room for the 20^th.
Notify the hotel what time you’re due in.
Explain that they should tell the night manager about your arrival time.
Before you leave home send a confirmation email with your booking attached (If you have one).
In your cabin luggage carry a copy of the email you received from the hotel.
Keep the hotel phone number handy so the taxi driver can call the hotel if he gets lost in Pattaya.
Try to get a copy of a map showing the hotel’s location. A lot of hotel booking websites display location maps with the street names printed in Thai.

How To Go From The Taxi Counter.

The taxi counter collects fares for meter taxis that run with meter turned off.
You pay the one time flat rate of 1400 to Pattaya.
Find the TAXI METER counter.
Say, “I want TAXI METER”.
That will help you find the counter.
Pay the fee at the counter. Get the receipt.

Someone will take you to the Thai taxi driver.
Confirm with the desk clerk that the fee includes toll way.

When you get your ticket, hang on to it. Don’t (DO NOT) give the”passenger receipt” to the driver.

The driver gets the driver’s receipt.
Some drivers try to take the passenger receipt from you.
Don’t let him do that.

The driver’s name and car registration number is on that receipt.
It also has a contact number on the receipt if you have a complaint or you leave something behind in the taxi.

One traveler asked,
“What is the use of a receipt if the driver bumps me off”?

That would be unfortunate.

However if you do go missing the authorities have some information. They know who has been taking passengers to Pattaya at that time.
They have the name and car number of the driver who took passengers to Pattaya around the time the passenger went missing.

This information can assist police with a speedy solution.
- Tip:
  You might meet someone on your flight who is traveling to Pattaya.
  The two of you could share a taxi.
By sharing with another foreigner, preferably one who understands your language, the risk is lessened.

Taxi Security

If you have a problem with a meter taxi (taxi meter) for example you forget and leave luggage in the car;

Please Call: 1584 or 02 130-0002 or 02 130-0097

Alternative Taxi to Pattaya

You can try taking a meter taxi (TAXI METER) from the departures level.
They pull up to let off a passenger then you can ask if they will take you to Pattaya “meter ON”.

Make sure the driver resets the meter when you get in.
It should show 35 baht on the read out screen.

This can be a bit messy because some don’t want to drive to Pattaya.
This is a better choice if you are only going to a hotel in Bangkok.
There may not be many taxis available at your time of arrival
More information about Bangkok Airport to Pattaya.

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Should I Send Money to a Thai Girl?

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This can happen. Probability 99%
Imagine you meet a beautiful Thai lady in a bar in Pattaya.
You fall in love with her. Don’t think it won’t happen. This does happen to many foreigners who visit Pattaya. They fall in love with Pattaya bar girls.

You don’t want her to work in the bar when you go back to your country so you offer to pay her some money so that she does not have to work in the bar and get laid by lots of men.
Your Thai girlfriend wants money to survive. Right?

Questions To Ask Yourself Before Sending Money to a Thai Girl

“How will I know that she has stopped working in the bar?”
“How much salary should I pay my Thai girlfriend?” (Probably not as much as you think).
“Should I give her a large sum of money?”

You are advised not to give her a large sum of money.
Why?
There are several reasons and one is synonymous with Thai culture.
But I advise you not to give her a large amount of money unless you know your Thai girlfriend and her family very well.

Even then there is no guarantee that your Thai girl friend might not be persuaded to hand over her good fortune to some other member of her family who has convinced her that he or she is more deserving of the cash.

Thai Girls and Sending Money

This brings to mind a report that is almost free and I used to tell people that they should download it if they are planning to send money to a bar girl in Thailand,
or even planning to give her a lump sum of money. But now………..

Now I try to tell any man I meet who is planning a trip to Thailand to read

“Thai Girls and Sending Money” report before he even books his ticket to Thailand.
Why?
Simply because the information is so very useful to have in your mind when you are leaving Thailand to return to your own country.

Reading the report will save you time, money and perhaps heartache.
These three questions (above) and more are answered and fully explained in the report.

FEES

Are you thinking that you will have to pay expensive bank transfer fees if you send periodic payments to her? Not if you follow the strategy outlined in pages 9 – 11 of
“Thai Girls and Sending Money” report. You can save some money, maybe a lot more than you could imagine.

If you have got a copy of the Pattaya bar hopping map then it is highly likely that you are planning on meeting some bar girls for extra curricular activities.

Right Answers?

It is so easy to become infatuated and sex struck by a warmhearted beautiful brown bar girl beauty. When she gazes into your heart with those beautiful brown eyes and says:
“I not work bar you send money me?”
Will you have the right answers?

Download Thai Girls and Sending Money and prepare yourself now.
Remember at the moment it is almost free and it will save you a bundle.

Check out the report and save yourself some time, money and frustration.
Here is the link.
“Thai Girls and Sending Money” report.

Getting to Pattaya

Bangkok Airport Unfair Taxi Cost to Pattaya

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In this post Carlos tells us about his first day in Thailand. He had never been to Thailand before.

This was my first visit to Thailand and these are my first impressions. As I got off the plane at Bangkok airport and walked towards the arrivals exit I was overwhelmed by the many beautiful colors of the spledid tropical orchards lining the walkway, not to mention my first sight of the beautiful Thai women.

After going through immigration and customs, I walked over to the travel agent counter to buy a taxi ticket to Pattaya and get a receipt for the taxi cab to Pattaya. I was a bit reluctant to pay as I was told beforhand it should only cost between 1,300 and 1,400 baht. I told this to the lovely girl behind the counter but she assured me that 2,200 baht was the right price for the taxi fare from Bangkok airport to Pattaya.

I can now assure you that it isn’t the usual price, or a fair price for a taxi from Bangkok airport to Pattaya. Click the following link for more details about the cost of the taxi from Bangkok airport to Pattaya, alternative methods of transport and what to look out for.

I begrudgingly paid the 2,200 then was taken out of the airport building past all the authentically decorated taxi cabs over to some area that resembled a car park. There I waited for twenty-five minutes (one quarter of a footie match) for my taxi to arrive. I just wanted to get to Pattaya.

Well I was sure in for a surprise. The taxi I got into would have been at least 10 years old. The driver had to stop at the first service station on the way to inflate one of the tyres that was leaking. The seat belt was worn from over use and the buckle clip needed repair. It just didn’t work. When I glanced into the taxi driver’s rear vision mirror all I could see was a grey blur with no reflection and all this cost 2,200 baht.

As we proceeded down the hiway, and I must say it was quite a good road, I noticed lots of motorcycle scooters no different to the ones in the western world except, there seemed to be a total disregard for safety as most of the Thai riders were hat-less. (No safety helmets). And to my amusement, these people loaded their whole family on the scooters. Mum dad and the 2 kids yes that’s 4 people on one scooter screaming down a main hiway with no helmets passing my old Thai taxi with viewless mirrors.

As I spoke to the airport taxi driver on the way to Pattaya I found him quite friendly and helpful. Telling me things like “Don’t go riding scooters when you’ve been drinking” and enthusiastically giving me a crash course in Thai language. I asked him how to say a few basic things in Thai like “Thank you” and “Where’s the toilet”.

However this was no easy compensation for the feeling that I had been zealiously charmed then ripped off by the pretty face at the airport. Don’t fall for this like I did. Heck it was my first time in Thailand and I just wanted to get to my destination in Pattaya as soon as I could.

My dad was waiting for me at his home in Pattaya and I knew he would be expecting me within say two and a half hours of the flight arrival time. Well after adding on the 25 minute wait in the car park and further delay pumping up the deflating tyre on the ten year old taxi at two service stations, I arrived at my destination three and a half hours after the plane landed at the airport.

I had given the taxi driver the address of my dad’s hotel but I was lucky that I had my dad’s phone number on my person because when we arrived at Pattaya, the driver, after driving around a few blocks, admitted he didn’t have a clue where my dad’s hotel was located.

My dad also told me I should make sure the taxi driver knew the whereabouts of the Pattaya hotel before I jumped into the taxi. I was so excited about being in Thailland I forgot all the advice I was given. Next time I will do better.

Pattaya Bars, Walking Street

Pattaya Bar Hopping Map

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The evening is when most punters go bar hopping right?
In a way that’s what this post is about. Where to find the bars.

There are thousands of bars in Pattaya. You will need a good map to navigate them.
Good news. I have one for you. I know you like free stuff.

I received an email from Mike Baird giving me permission to upload his Pattaya bar hopping map for you to view on Pattaya-bar-girls website. Most of the bars shown in the map are located in Walking Street Pattaya.

You can view it here.

Pattaya Bar Hopping Map

The bar hopping map includes

20 outdoor bars
60 of Pattaya’s most popular go go bars
20 no hassle couples bars

If you like you can download the Pattaya bar map and print it out for your own personal use.

On the same web page you will see some of the bar girl ebooks, nightlife guides, and reports I have uploaded for you.
If you have ever considered sending money to a Thai girl then have a serious look at
“Thai Girls and Sending Money”

Click through to the “Thai Girls and Sending Money” website and you will be surprised when you
read through and get to the bottom of the page.

Here again is the link to the Pattaya ebooks reports and bar hopping map page.